TO Spank or Not to Spank

Parents hope that their children can had a good education and then learning and grow up gradually. Especially, in the busy and quick modern society, how to teach your child is a good way? In fact, children were educated have some difference in early agricultural society and modern technology period. Do you think a good education method about parents to spank children? No matter what did children do? I think corporal punishment is not a good punishment. In my opinion, I do not agree to spank have two reasons: children needs independent learning and grow up by themselves, and when they become adults maybe have many bad memories about corporal punishment.

Perhaps many parents can think to spank their children is right, when their children mistook something in life. However, these parent’s motives that they only want to their children have good behavior or discipline. They usually lost their patience and lost their temper to teach their children have good idea. Therefore, I think some children grow up process is feel not happy in this case environment. They lacked for independent thought space and self-confident. When they become adults unknowingly, they usually have not the courage to face their feeling and setback in their life. They used to tell them that you should what do something by person. They feared that they maybe mistook something, so that they have not self-confident and the courage to try new thing or create new idea by themselves.

I believe parents to spank children is a very terrible conduct. Because of their children must be keep bad memory in their childhood. If corporal punishment is a good punishment, everyone would be a good and honest person, and nobody in prison. I feel children should not be severely punish for mistook because children have their dignity in their world. Too many punishment just let they feel get few warm and love. Maybe when they become adults, they are a silent person, cool and remote. I think these people’s distant action from their bad childhood.

Following this two reasons, I do not support to spank children. I believe parents just give their children to full of love and patience, and to teach correct behavior, actual idea, they can more happy grow up and learning. When man of mature years, they have a positive attitude towards life from grow up environment in their childhood. Therefore, I think children have a good education that they have independent thought space and nice childhood memory by themselves, not to spank.